I blame ….. !
November 1st, 2009 by Father Paul
It is a strange thing that sometimes groups which begin by representing the interests of others often end up by alientating the very people they set out to represent. This is partly due to some self-opinionated members taking the lead, and riding their own ‘hobby horses’, and partly because of a failure to listen to what is being said. At best the group loses its impetus and purpose, often disbanding, and at most does a great deal of harm lambasting those individuals and ‘bodies’ it considers who are failing the community.
Jesus was often criticised by the Pharisees who took it upon themselves to represent the interests of the community. No doubt they did represent the interests of some, although their zealousness made their protestations and their whole approach probably unacceptable to the majority.
In the town in which I live, there are those who write articulate letters to the newspaper, complaining about Council policy, the state of cleanliness of the local hospital, issues about parking, problems with this and problems with that. I wonder whether, and to what extent, the act of complaining really gets things done? It certainly makes people unpopular !
The church has never tried to be a community of perfect people(you only need read the Letters of St. Paul to work that one out!), although there are those who blame Christians for the failures in society and for their indifference to the needs of individuals and communities. The other day I read an article in which the writer tried to claim that the church had lost its’ place at the centre of the community. Well, it didn’t upset me because the statement is true in a way and not in another – the church is a community of believers drawn from a community of people, simply that, and inevitably many of the benevolent and charitable works it exercised have been taken over long ago by other agencies.
The therapist Virginia Satir identifies types of behaviour in people and ‘the blamer’ is the one who is always accusing someone.The curious thing is, that ‘blamers’ don’t usually want answers, even if they are offered, they are more concerned with their own feelings of superiority and ‘throwing their weight around’. Admittedly, we can all adopt this stance from time to time, but their are those who seem to want to make a career of making other people miserable through their accusations.
Perhaps those who are ready to apportion blame should take care that the good they attempt to do isn’t eclipsed by the harm which may result in being overly critical. As a friend pointed out to me, the roots of communities go very deep, and all too often those who rise to defend those interests have been around for too short a time to understand the implications or the complexity of the social history which belies them.
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China is using the ‘smokescreen’ of the Olympic Games to mask their appalling record of human rights abuse and, I think that, everyone who watches the opening ceremony or any of the Games is doing nothing less than giving their consent to oppressive rule, intimidation, torture and murder. The Chinese Government is no respecter of an individual’s freedom, whether it involves the right of its’ citizens to determine the size of their family, to practice their religion, the right to unregulated education or even what a farmer may grow in his fields – let alone the right to experience another culture or even the control of the words which come out of your own mouth.
Whilst the Olympic Games may stand ostensibly for the ‘spirit of competition’, they are being staged in a country which severely punishes any dissent or possible competition or challenge to its authority. It beggars belief that those who support these games can continue to believe that, in fact, any athletic competition on a national or global scale makes any contribution to decent living, the pursuit of justice or the establishment of peace in our world. Let’s face it, even some of those who compete are prepared to take drugs in order to enhance their performance, which is in itself an a form of aggressive competitive behaviour, with their determination to succeed propelling them from potential failure to success at any cost.
The truth is, we cannot be denigrated or abused, through the actions of others, unless we choose to be so! If we are offended or upset, it is because we think we deserve better and, quite frankly, that flies in the face of Gospel teaching. Jesus tells us that if we are struck on one cheek by someone, which could be seen as a physical or verbal action, we should not retaliate, but ‘turn the other cheek’, turning our face not once, but repeatedly until, in effect, we take their anger away.
In 1989, the American photographer, Andres Serrano was paid for, and exhibited an extremely controversial work. His subject was a plastic crucifix submerged in a glass of his own urine, controversially known as Piss Christ. Whilst it is hardly a tasteful subject, the significance of what he was attempting to portray was misunderstood by many, and condemned by many Christians as blasphemous. However, it was understood by one person, the Religious and art critic, Sister Mary Beckett, who said that it was not blasphemous but a statement of ‘what we have done to Christ’. In essence, it took the incisive and spiritual mind of a humble religious sister, dispossessed of worldly things, to see the truth.
The truth is that in the twenty first century it appears to be more important to hold competitive games which achieve nothing, than to eliminate the poverty, suffering, starvation and oppression in our world. The fact is shameful and dishonourable enough but more so when the hosting nation, with its’ apalling record in respecting human rights, is involved in the perpetuation of that suffering. If some of the world’s nations boycotted the Beijing Olympics, there is nothing that the Chinese could do, but how much would be acheived in drawing attention to some of the terrible injustices which exist.
Yet, inspite of all the protests, boycotts and lobbying against such practices, the company still managed to declare an excess of £2.5 billion pounds in profits and a 30% share of the retail market.
ave truly benefitted from such a benevolent gesture? The problem is that those who offer and sell an economy range of products simply tend to forget that there are still those who struggle on low incomes, for whom cheap is still expensive and, for whom, Christmas is as expensive a time as for those who are rich.
After fifty years, I suppose I shouldn’t be surprised by anything really. I think I am at the stage where part of me thinks that I have seen it all somewhere before, and another part is regretting throwing away all those things which are now back in fashion – including the platform shoes!